By now, we’re all generally familiar with the sentiments: We’re a country divided, and we’re exhausted by it. A 2023 Pew Research Center report showed over 60% of Americans are fatigued by the news. A 2021 USA Today/Public Agenda poll showed that nearly 75% of Americans are tired of partisan divides and believe it would be good for the country to find common ground, but only one in ten think rancor will decrease over the next ten years.
So far, 2024 doesn’t seem to be quelling those sentiments. It is true of course, that some benefit from division and conflict, but these numbers suggest that the majority of the country are looking for ways to overcome these divisions. My experience with students—undergraduates, graduates, executives, and even alumni returning to take lifetime learning courses—should give hope that there are, in fact, ways for us to find that common ground.
One of the assignments I give all my students is to find a piece of music that puts them into seven different states of mind, ranging, for example, from competitiveness to friendliness to joy to reflection. It’s a bit of a riff on levels of moral development created by psychologists, and it nudges students to recognize and inhabit different ways of looking at the world. Then we take a closer look at those states of mind that encourage positive interactions with each other and the music that goes along with those mindsets. (We can do the same thing with other shared experiences such as sporting events, movies, and other storytelling, and even sharing a meal, religious beliefs and interacting with our pets.) When students share their musical (or other) selections of positive interaction, they quickly find a bridge to common ground, even if they don’t exactly share the same songs.
With a view of the whole lecture hall, I can almost see their brains relax as they share their answers to this musical question. They have found something in common, even with someone they may disagree with on social and political issues, something that represents a shared identity. And this small but tangible shared identity can soften students’ fears around expressing their values-related opinions and their political and social positions because, after all, they now share something in common—music. Our brains have significant flexibility, and with a little nudge like a shared cultural experience, a favorite something, we can see each other a bit differently, with a slightly more open mind.